Sometimes.. many times , what meets the eyes is not really true-- or is it?
Our conviction on a person or a situation is so very strong at certain times that the instances that we logically believe are real, seem false, because we know that what we really trust from inside against what we see or hear is right.
We might get anxious or excited even hurt or angry when we first get exposed to the incident, but introspection and the inner calling screams and shouts and convinces us that this, what our logical reasoning is forcing us to believe in, is not completely right-- and its then that we start to calm down and begin looking at the other perspectives. Most of the times, we really do understand later that our inner selves know us best, and that our instant response was probably wrong.. guilt and regret takes over and we start to mend and undo what our first reaction...
Therefore, what is to be done at the very beginning!? It sure isn't easy to ignore and reject everything against someone close to us -- our first natural thought process tells us ' there is smoke where there is fire' -- and practically too.. blind faith really doesn't exist especially in times like today-- also when we ourselves hear or see something first hand, its comparatively difficult to digest it without the burp of doubt..
We should rather, at instances like these, introspect before the shooting I guess, bring our heart and mind in sync with each other before contradiction and may be weigh the other possibilities way before blurting out what we think must have been-- not easy for sure-- directly proportional to the closeness of the person in terms of difficulty, but really important.. coz once we know what actually must have been, the feeling of guilt is manifold.. here, I think, what can probably make it easier can be just revising in our minds why have we anyway trusted the person till now! Of course, there must have been some qualities he/she would have portrayed unless we're exteremely bad in judging people, and this thought makes the entire process to follow comparatively very easy...
This post might sound like a Deepak Chopra piece but these says when relationships are so vulnerable, I think its really important to cherish and nourish if you have a valuable one..rather than letting it slip through your fingers coz of petty doubts or misunderstandings...
Our conviction on a person or a situation is so very strong at certain times that the instances that we logically believe are real, seem false, because we know that what we really trust from inside against what we see or hear is right.
We might get anxious or excited even hurt or angry when we first get exposed to the incident, but introspection and the inner calling screams and shouts and convinces us that this, what our logical reasoning is forcing us to believe in, is not completely right-- and its then that we start to calm down and begin looking at the other perspectives. Most of the times, we really do understand later that our inner selves know us best, and that our instant response was probably wrong.. guilt and regret takes over and we start to mend and undo what our first reaction...
Therefore, what is to be done at the very beginning!? It sure isn't easy to ignore and reject everything against someone close to us -- our first natural thought process tells us ' there is smoke where there is fire' -- and practically too.. blind faith really doesn't exist especially in times like today-- also when we ourselves hear or see something first hand, its comparatively difficult to digest it without the burp of doubt..
We should rather, at instances like these, introspect before the shooting I guess, bring our heart and mind in sync with each other before contradiction and may be weigh the other possibilities way before blurting out what we think must have been-- not easy for sure-- directly proportional to the closeness of the person in terms of difficulty, but really important.. coz once we know what actually must have been, the feeling of guilt is manifold.. here, I think, what can probably make it easier can be just revising in our minds why have we anyway trusted the person till now! Of course, there must have been some qualities he/she would have portrayed unless we're exteremely bad in judging people, and this thought makes the entire process to follow comparatively very easy...
This post might sound like a Deepak Chopra piece but these says when relationships are so vulnerable, I think its really important to cherish and nourish if you have a valuable one..rather than letting it slip through your fingers coz of petty doubts or misunderstandings...
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